Update On Joanne

____________________________ A meeting place for the FRIAMILY of Joanne Daquano _____________________________

Wednesday, September 13

 

In the eyes of a 7 year old

Dear Mike.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. How amazing and beautiful. I’ve finally told Darren of Joanne passing, I wasn’t sure how he would take it as the death of Bandit the cat took 3 days to get over.

These are the questions that he asked of you and your family (He saw the picture of her in the paper)
Is that Joanne? - I said yes.
He said - she looks so beautiful with hair. (Darren has never seen Joanne with long hair)
Mom, look at her smile, she has a beautiful smile ...
WAIT - bonesy doesn’t have a mom ... Will he be ok? - Yes I said.
WAIT - All the Daquano kids have lost there mom. Will they be ok? - Yes I said
Do they know that she died (remember, he’s only 7) – I said yes, Mike told the kids and they said there good byes on the weekend.
Mom, will Mike be ok? - I said yes.
Mom, she was on TV wasn’t she? - I said yes ...
Mom, do you think she is looking down at us from heaven with a big smile like the one in the picture? - I said yes.
Mom, do you think she is happy? - I said yes because she is with her dad.
Mom, are you sad and did you cry? - I said yes, I cried a little (ok I cried a lot)
Mom, do you think that Tawny will be ok? - I said yes, Tawny will be ok (Darren doesn’t know Target – he used to play with Tawny at Robin’s house when she was a puppy)
I told him that she died the day after the cancer walk.
He said. "That is very nice."
Darren asked if I was walking again next year, I said yes.
He asked if I would walk for her and I said yes.

Our thoughts are with you and your families
Laura, Richard & Darren Pydych

Comments:
Laura,
Tell Darren that I have some of the same questions and I am not 7 years old! Will the children be okay? Will Mike be okay?

He has a very smart Mommy! Thank you Laura for this. You really helped me realize the answer is so simple. Although it's not okay right now, it will be.

Kim
 
My five year old daughter Sarah wakes each morning and has a count going. "So is this Jo's 4th day in Heaven?"
 
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