Update On Joanne

Ted I don't know if my original blog went through.I pressed preview and then it was gone.It is my first Blog.....So here it is again


Joanne,
I have been following the blog and it is such a true testament to your commitment and love for family, friends, neighbours, and your faith. Your spirit truly touched our family in our time of need. I will never forget when you and Mr. U. walked into Carly’s Hospital room at Sick kids. Even though Carly was now in Grade 12 and she hadn’t been in your class since grade 7. You were there for our family when you heard Carly was diagnosed with cancer. You were a shoulder I cried on when I was scared I would lose my child to this dreadful disease . You were a support system for Carly when she needed it most. You advised her on the “GI Jane” cut when it was apparent that her hair was going to fall out because of the chemo, you gave her the journal that allowed her to write her feelings and emotions when there would be no one she could talk to. I will never forget your support to Carly and our family during our time of need. You continue to touch so many people in so many different ways that you are truly one of Gods gifts.
Blessings,

Cindy LeBlanc
 

A STRANGER AMONG US.....

I had not ever had the privilege of meeting or working with Joanne or Mike Daquano. That is not until this past Sunday.

As the saying "it's a small world" goes, it seems we have shared many of the same acquaintances along the way; whether it be through some old high school chums or former teaching associations. I was informed about this incredible family by my close friend, someone who once taught with Joanne. I have only ever learned about their struggles through what others have told me and by reading this very moving blog site.

However, Sunday, something very strange and emotional came over me. I was visiting my father-in-law at the Bennett Centre with my husband and our three children, when I felt an overwhelming and inexplicable sensation. I simply found the elevator and made my way to Joanne's room. Yes, me, a complete stranger-them not knowing me from Adam (which is how I introduced myself to Mike in the hallway). I did not seek to interrupt a very highly personal situation; it was not my place. I was, however, compelled at that moment to show my support to the Daquano family. Although it would not come in the form that most of their family, friends, and even bloggers could provide. I simply wanted them to know that even a stranger cares about their difficult journey and is praying for them every day.

I wanted Joanne to know that as a woman, a wife, a mother, a sister...her struggle with this horrible disease, is my struggle too. I pray each day she receives a miracle, in whatever form she needs it for that day; albeit a painfree moment or a deserved restful sleep.

Equally as important to me, and the actual reason I went downstairs that day, was for Mike to know that I also thought and cared about his well-being. I know many of the challenges he and Joannes' family are facing all too well. Nine years ago, this past March, I lost my mother-in-law to breast cancer after her long and difficult battle. I know the support he is receiving is wonderful and crucial; but I also know what those silent moments of reflection are like when no one is there. I pray each day that he receives God's strength and endurance, so he can continue to be the pillar of strength that many refer to him as. It is also my prayer that he is offered and accepts help through every stage of this struggle.

As it goes, I probably didn't convey any of my wishes very well, as I was a little thrown aback when Mike asked me to come in and meet Joanne. When I laid my eyes upon her beautiful face, sleeping so gracefully and peacefully, I knew that I had been blessed to see an earth angel.

Mike, you welcomed me into your beloved wifes room, not even looking at me like, "Who in the whole world are you?" You let me share with you, when I mindlessly intended just the opposite-I wanted to be the one giving to you; even if it was such a small token. I didn't come offering much, but I left with enough to last my lifetime. I can only hope our short ten minute meeting left you with an enormous sense of just how far the outreach of prayer and hope stretches for you and your family.

God Bless you all....don't be a stranger.

Robyn Roe
 

Hi Joanne,

I'm sending along a hug filled with memories, good times, tenderness, confidence, devotion, gentleness, sincerity, peacefulness, understanding and love. To Joanne, the woman with the eyes that speak a thousand words. Know that this hug is one of those that makes you want to keep holding on.

Your friend always,
Rosemary
 

Joanne & Family

Words are usually a strong quality I possess. But over the last few months so many times I have sat down to try and they have failed me. Although my words are unspoken I hope my actions speak louder than words.

Our paths only crossed in the last six years but this blog site has made me feel like I have known you a life time. Stories told, tears shed and the love described has entangled my heart to yours. I am here for all of you today and always.

We love you all and you are in our families thoughts and prayers. May you find peace in the messages that are sent to you just knowing you have made an impact on so many peoples lives.

God bless you and rest well!!

XOXOXOX

Marny & Dave
Alex, Tyler & Spencer

XOXOXOXOXO