____________________________ A meeting place for the FRIAMILY of Joanne Daquano _____________________________
We have just finished the hottest day of our stay so far. It was 40 degrees at the beach this afternoon and it was 35 degrees when we came out of the restaurant at 7:30 or so.
Today has been a day of no tears - the first one. For the first time in two weeks I feel like myself again and time doesn't have that surreal quality to it. I was thinking this morning that it feels like we have all eight feet on the ground. So I tossed out this nugget, "Would you guys mind if we headed home a little early?" The huge chorus of "YES!" truly surprised me.
After going over a scenario that would see us home by Friday (29th), I really got the feeling that this trip may have been more for me than for my beautiful children. Yes, they're beautiful, but they're still my children and I am the father. I needed to scold them, and calm them down, and tell them how to behave all day. Nothing in an unusual way, same old Mike on an adventure with his same old kids. They (especially Dean) love to push the limit and see what they can get away with ... and they have been doing so almost the whole time we've been away. I know that kids are resilient, I just never expected that my kids would have their resiliency tested.
I believe they've passed the test.
Now let's see what happens when we "get back to reality."
I'm beginning to think this blog may have now run its course. I will confer with the blog master upon my return and we will decide a final date for posting to it. Just like all of us, it will need closure too.
In the meantime, if you have something you've been waiting to say, please say it. There are still people listening.
Sunburnt and Ready to Come Home.
All my love,
Mike